Learn to Set Boundaries

[Manuel Tavares]

Learn to Set Boundaries
Athena (Lesson 13)
Through Sharon Stewart
https://rayviolet.blogspot.com/2022/05/learn-to-set-boundaries.html

Athena: This would appear to be another intellectual lesson but it is not. This is about energy exchange as well.

When you set a verbal boundary with another person, you are holding off their energy. This is what stalking is about, by the way. The stalker desires the energy of the other person and will stop at nothing to get it. Stalkers think about the people they are stalking and in this way steal their energy. Yes, thinking about another person creates an energetic connection; it's a question of whether it's reciprocated or not. Stalking has to do with disempowering another person.

Me: LOL Yes. I feel that too. I get stalked doing this work.

Athena: What you must do is shield yourself from connections you do not want to make with others and continue to cut cords.

During interaction with other people, boundary setting must be done. Without that, you will become overwhelmed quickly, especially if you''re a giving type of person. The ability to say “No, I won't do that,” is very important. If saying “no” is hard for you, then use other means, “You'll have to do that yourself,” or, “Talk to me later about that.”

This is about protecting your energy, creating a life for yourself that works for you, and not becoming emotionally and energetically drained.+++
https://rayviolet.blogspot.com/2022/05/learn-to-set-boundaries.html