Arcturian11, Winning a Fight Without Fighting; Winning an Argument Without Arguing

[Arcturian11]

I was once confronted, in a large city in the United States, by three gentlemen who were apparently members of organized crime. I was in a store buying something, and for some reason, one of them had a problem with me. Two of the fellows were large, say 300 lbs., and a younger man who I took to be the son of the mafia boss in town. It was a dangerous and completely unnecessary situation, and obviously extremely unusual, but it could not be denied. Being completely dedicated to non violence, my spiritual energy was the only thing in my power to protect me, for they could've, obviously overcome me physically if they had decided to do so. I had at that moment, absolutely no fear of death, and I conveyed that to them with my eyes. This is what I call "visual kung-fu." There was also a tinge of pity for these seemingly lost souls. And they backed off as if a kind of repellent had been sprayed upon them. A similar incident happened with two gang members in Los Angeles one evening, with the same result. People simply don't want to engage with someone unafraid...unafraid to die...unafraid to lose.

Lao Tsu said,"If you don't compete, no one can compete with you."

When there is conflict in your midst, be silent, connect with your spirit, and let that energy show through your eyes. You'll always be safe.

Arcturian11

[Arcturian11]

Very very nice work and observations my friends.

[Cyboriell]

yes very true indeed , without any knowledge of it I already had tu use exactly this procedure various times in my life ,thing of spontuos knowing suppose .thank you for sharing :) namaste

[Arcturian11]

Gerd, Amanda, Juan and kamala...I'm so pleased this had meaning for you. Thank you very kindly for your comments.

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[Juan]

I like this messages, makes you think...
Namaste.

[Gerd Ambranovic]

Good one! Thank you!