The Unification Epicenter of True Lightworkers
It was helpful for me to find a Kirtan group in my area. Being able to sing and have a spiritual experience while making music in a group is very grounding yet uplifting - balancing. Those involved have become my best friends and led to some great potlucks, outings, etc. I suggest finding a spiritual yoga class, meditation group, or reading/discussion group, and taking time to talk to the leader and other participants about the things others might not understand. Or start your own potluck/meeting/etc! And give it time and love. Remember, you have to do it yourself, but that doesn't mean you have to do it alone.
P.S. As for the wife, new activities and hobbies, however strange, may be easier to understand than new concepts. So be subversive :) Time and love.
Meditate over them, follow you intution and do what you think if best.
The father knows what you need do not worry.
Before start every day tell to yourself the following:
THE GREAT INVOCATION
From the point of Light in the Mind of God
Let light stream forth into the minds of men;
Let Light descend on Earth.
From the point of Love in the Heart of God
Let love stream forth into the hearts of men;
May Christ return to Earth.
From the center where the Will of God is known,
Let purpose guide the little wills of men;
The purpose which the Masters know and serve.
From the center that we call the race of men,
Let the Plan of Love and Light get realise.
And seal the door where evil dwells.
Let Light and Love and Power restore the Plan onto Earth.
PD: Meditate and ask yourself: Who am I? - repite in your mind that question. You will get you cosmic name. Then use it to like a mantra. It will help you raise your vibration to medite.
Also, get in contact with nature, parks, montains, rivers, etc. Mother Earth will help you.